The break up of a relationship may be an upsetting and traumatic time.  People are understandably emotional; they may feel betrayed, rejected, angry, bewildered and frightened.  Often, it will be difficult to focus and to appreciate that there is life after separation and divorce, even if it does not seem likely at the time.

Once the shock of separation has sunk in, it is time to take stock and move on. Information and advice is needed. These days information is available from many sources. Often family and friends will rally round to offer support.  They will do their best to help, both emotionally and practically and they will probably be able to sympathise, especially if they have been in a similar position.  

Although well meant, the advice given might lead down the wrong track. Every relationship is unique, and different factors are relevant.  Individuals need to be advised of the law and how it applies to their own situation.

A family Solicitor can help.  We are normal people; we don’t have two heads and four arms! As professionals trained in this complex area of the law, we have experience in helping people through a troubled period of their lives.

It just takes a telephone call, or maybe a personal visit to our offices, to make an initial appointment.

One of the first questions will be about costs.  Legal aid may be available and we can advise about eligibility, which is based on income, savings and the merits of the case. We will then go on to take instructions which will involve listening, collecting the relevant facts, and discussing how we can help.

We can advise about arrangements for children, the division of finances and property, divorce, separation agreements and court procedure. We may be asked to advise about divorce proceedings and for help in completing court forms.